- All Things Pass
- by Lao Tze
- All things pass
- A sunrise does not last all morning
- A cloudburst does not last all day
- All things pass
- Nor a sunset all night
- What always changes?
- Earth…sky…thunder…mountain…wind…fire…lake…
- These change
- And if these do not last
- Do man’s visions last?
- Do man’s illusions?
- Take things as they come
- All things pass
His son, Robert, spoke these words at his father’s memorial on Saturday, October 31, 2009. It was a very moving service filled with many wonderful, funny and heartfelt stories about Chao Yu Wu. I learn much about my husband’s side of the family, their kindness, humor and love. I wish they lived closer so we can get to know them better but some of the families live in Germany, Singapore and other faraway places.
While we were at the cemetery, one of the aunties asked us if we knew the difference or why some of the headstones had red or white writing on them, and she told us marriage couples will buy pre-lots together and if one of the partners passed away, they will put both of their names on the headstone. The deceased’s name and information is painted in white and the person still alive will be shown in red, but once that person passed away then they will switch to white.
At the end of day we went to a really good Shanghai restaurant in Richmond, called Shanghai River Restaurant. We had about 22 people in our party and ordered way too much food but it was all delicious and I definitely recommend this place.
Our first course was the cold dish appetizer, starting on the bottom left, consisting of all jelly fish, braised fried tofu with peanuts and black fungus mushrooms, tofu skin rolls filled with spinach, julienned celery and scallion salad with tofu stripes and in the center rice wine poached chicken. It was all very tasty.

Second course was one of the better shrimp dishes I had from a Chinese restaurant.
Next came, the wonton soup with tender chunks of pork and baby bok choy which were very simple but satisfying
Our fourth course Xiao Long Bao or soup dumplings. Shanghai River is known for these delicious dumplings. These particular variety is small and for me two bite size, husband one bite. I love how the dumpling skin was just perfect ratio between the meat, soup and skin. Definitely order this when you come. We had the pork, but I heard the crab one is much better.
Here is the team of people making those yummy fresh dumplings all night long.
Next came the traditional fried crabs which were finger licking good for our fifth course

Sixth dish was the Smoked Peking Duck with buns. The duck was delicious perfectly seasoned, tender and juicy.
A whole braised napa cabbage. I was really surprised how good this dish. I was skeptical at first but look at it! It does not look that appetizing, does it? It turned out to be flavorful and tender. It was a shame by the last course I was completely stuffed but I continue eating because the food was so good.
The next dish was probably the scariest looking dish ever! Don’t you think?
Here’s a better angle. My uncle said this is a squirrel fish because of its tail. I have to admit beside it being scary, the fish was really good. The fish was fried to perfection. The fish was not overcooked but tender and flaky and the sweet and sour sauce was like none I have tasted before. It really looked disturbing because it looked like they just open a can of cocktail fruit and added ketchup but surprisedly it was really tasty.
Then came the noodle dish, which after all the good food, was just okay
Just when I thought we were done, they finally brought over the last dish, black sesame paste balls in an egg white drop sweet soup, which were so-so, unfortunately Chinese restaurants are not known for their dessert dishes.

Overall, the food here was very good and the restaurant was continuously packed all night while we were there and we were there for almost four hours that night, just eating.
So if you are in the Richmond/Vancouver BC area, I definitely recommend this place and don’t forget to order the fresh fried doughnuts!
- Shanghai River Restaurant
- 7831 Westminster Hwy
Richmond, BC V6X 4J4, Canada
(604) 233-8885